BAGGAGE TO WATCH OUT FOR FROM THE PAST RELATIONSHIPS

Have you ever wondered why there are so many relationships failing in this generation that we are in? The reason is so simple. A lot of people carry  baggage from the former relationships to their then relationship. Some of these baggage are:

Not seeking God's will about your to be partner through scripture not some sought of dream.
Relating for the wrong reasons/motives.For example, I wanna marry a lawyer to at least be seen as respectable or i wanna marry this guy because he has a car and so on.
Wounded hearts that looks for a relationship to settle in that ends up in entanglements
Comparison of the two relationships that makes people prefer the former relationships
Secrets form the former relationship
Societal pressure of being in a relationship
Pretending to have healed but still carry insecurities form the former relationship with you
Lust of the eye and flesh
Trying to apply what used to work in your former relationship to your now relationship
pretending to care so that people can be vulnerable to you then later use it as your source of security to refer back to the past without being mindful to the other person
Marrying for looks,like oh how cute our children will look as your priority concern
Fear of being a loner
Time factor in terms of age like ooh am thirty and still single