IF YOU WANT TO LOVE, THEN YOU ARE REQUIRED TO LAY YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR FRIEND

Love is a beautiful thing, once you are in it, it feels like roses and seems like it will last forever. Although, things seem a bit different on the ground. Most people only love when the circumstances are favorable. When all things seem to be working out, oh, that is what they may consider to be love. So many,however, would take their leave when everything is going haywire. This has made a lot of people hurt. Leaving the fairy tales end in nightmares. Broken down and not seeing eye to eye with your so called ''ex''. These people see forgiveness as something so difficult yet by Gods grace it is an easy to do. Some people put a facade on the first instance of the love then turn to be the real self after things get sour. The question is, are we ready to ''endure all things'' as God would instruct as in 1 Corinthians 13. Are we ready to sacrifice by laying our lives for our friends ama sisi ni wale kukidhoka ni miguu ni ponye? Then few weeks before you leave you the one you purported to love, you are so busy on peoples DMs scouting for the next victim after your escapades? Do we really understand love or we love because we are loved or perharps i should ask us,what is our motive of loving someone? What if we are not loved? hehe... Sometimes i feel like i ought to write something new but still it feels like people still need to be told about love because to be very honest i doubt if i've met a person whom i can attest that actually they love the way Christ does. Sometimes we get tired, of the sacrifices we used to make because we thought we were loving but it wasn't the case. I don't wanna hide from what the reality is because of putting a face that it is all rosy and that kind of fairy tales stuff. Love comes with a price to pay. love is selfless, love is not jealous,love never fails, love is patient, never gives up, love endures all things... go read 1 Corinthians 13. Sometimes we pretend a lot to love yet we actually don't understand love in itself. My friend Tito would remind me of being accountable to God even with something as small as relationships. It freaks me out, i don't know about you? Anyway i wanted to at least share something about love. I'd leave with a concern that people say, what if circumstances, health or appearance changed? Would you still love me or it is beneficial?